Sometimes life feels like a Monday that just won’t end. Your alarm goes off too early, your coffee is gone, and your favorite pair of pants are still in the wash. But good news: you can train your mindset like a muscle! With a few small daily habits, you can turn that eternal Monday into a sunny Friday (with maybe even a slice of cake).

Here are 10 simple habits that will help you have a more positive outlook on life.

1 - Start your day with gratitude

Before your phone pulls you into a world of notifications, take a moment to think of three things you’re grateful for. They can be big or small, from your sweet cat to the smell of freshly brewed tea. Gratitude puts your brain in “happy mode” and helps you focus on what’s going well.

2 - Smile, even -or especially- when you don't feel like it

Did you know that even a fake smile can trick your brain? Smiling, even when you’re not feeling great, releases endorphins in your body. Before you know it, that fake smile will become a real one. Try it sometime (but maybe not in the middle of a serious conversation).

Also read 👉 5 Ways to Laugh More Every Day

3 - Move your mindset happy

You don’t have to run marathons. A quick walk outside, a little dance in your living room, or a quick stretch can make a world of difference. Exercise helps reduce stress and boosts your mood. Plus, you can sing along to your favorite song while you’re at it. 🎶

4 - Avoid negativity (especially in the morning!)

The temptation is great to check your socials or the news immediately after waking up. But if your day starts with miserable messages, that sets the tone. Try to keep the first 30 minutes screen-free and start your morning with something that gives you energy: music, a book or just enjoying your coffee in silence.

5 - Talk to yourself like a friend

How often do you find yourself thinking, “I’m not good enough” or “I can’t do this”? Would you say that to a friend? Probably not. So be kinder to yourself. Replace negative thoughts with motivational words: “I’m doing my best and that’s enough.”

6 - Find small moments of happiness

Happy moments are often in the little things: an unexpected ray of sunshine, a joke from a colleague or a perfectly baked sandwich. Train yourself to notice these happy moments. The more you pay attention, the more often you will see them!

Also read 👉 Small happiness and even more enjoyment - 7 tips

7 - Surround yourself with positive people

Your energy is influenced by the people around you. Do you have someone in your environment who constantly drains you with negativity? Try to spend less time with them and seek out people who cheer you up. Whether that is your best friend or that friendly barista at your favorite coffee shop.

8 - Do something nice for someone else

A positive mindset grows when you do something for others. Send a sweet message, let someone go first in line or surprise a colleague with a cup of tea. So simple, but it gives a huge boost to your own mood.

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9 - Laugh at your mistakes

We all make mistakes. Instead of beating yourself up, try laughing about it. Choking on a sip of water during a meeting? Think of it as a humorous break for your colleagues. Laughter helps you see things more lightheartedly and prevents you from getting stuck in negativity.

10 - End your day on a positive note

Before you fall asleep, think of three things that went well that day. It doesn’t have to be anything big—even “I watered my plants today” counts. Ending your day on a positive note sets your brain up for tomorrow.

It's your mindset, your choice

A positive mindset is not magic, but a muscle that you train every day. The great thing is: you don't have to do it perfectly. Every step, no matter how small, helps you to be more positive in life. So, which habit will you try first?

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