Why a monthly calendar will become your new bestie

As you pack your lunch boxes on Monday morning, your mind is already racing with all the things that need to be done this week. School trips, sports practices, parent-teacher conferences, work deadlines, birthdays – it all seems to come at once. And you? You’re trying to remember it all. Spoiler alert: it’s easier with… monthly calendars . Really!

One calendar, all worries gone

For years now, we’ve had a large monthly calendar hanging on the fridge in this house. Simple, clear, and a blessing for your peace of mind. Because if everyone in the house knows what’s going on, you don’t have to carry it all by yourself. This way, you can see at a glance:

• who is home when (or not)
• what needs to be done (think: ten-minute conversations, swimming lessons, dentist)
• and how much room there is left for spontaneous outings or an evening of couch surfing

3 Reasons Why a Monthly Calendar Works

1. Peace of mind
   You no longer have to remember everything or keep track of it in five places. The calendar becomes your external memory. Wonderful.

2. Jointly responsible
   Kids checking when to bring a treat? Partner finally realizing when you have a late meeting? Check.

3. Visual overview
   A calendar makes time visible . You can see immediately where the busyness is and where there is room for a break. That helps in making choices.

This is how you tackle it

• Choose a fixed spot – The refrigerator is ideal. Right in the middle of the aisle, no one can get around it.
• Use color codes – Each family member has their own color. Fun and clear.
• Plan together – Make a moment of it at the beginning of the month. Coffee, open your agendas, and start planning.
• Allow for adjustments – Use a dry erase marker or sticky notes to keep the calendar flexible.

And the best part? You make it yourself.

At Happlify we love DIY and being creative. So why not make your own monthly calendar? Just on a large sheet of paper or a whiteboard. Preferably a bit cozy: with washi tape, stamps or beautiful hand lettering and let everyone draw something on it. This way planning becomes not only useful, but also a bit fun.

No time to do it yourself? No problem, at Bekking & Blitz they have enough planners and calendars!